A lot can happen in 90 days.
This is what I tell myself.
A lot can actually happen in a few hours, in a few minutes, in an unexpected conversation with ones landlady.
Oh my God.
I have been asked to move.
I don’t know exactly what to do yet, or whom to share this information with.
I will admit I had an impulse to post up all over social media, but I restrained myself.
I think I was in shock.
I still am a bit, truth be told.
Yesterday though, I was definitely in shock, disbelief, horror, I was freaked out, I cried in supervision when I had to do my check in, I probably should not have been riding my scooter, but in a way it might have been the best thing since I had to focus fiercely on the road for a half hour.
I rode my scooter into supervision yesterday because of the huge Carnival festival that happens in the Mission every year Memorial Day weekend.
It’s a gigantic party and it’s a huge, huge, huge parade.
Where my internship is located at was a designated area of the Mission that was to be part of the route and there was no parking anywhere to be had, I knew this ahead of time and planned on taking my scooter.
I had no idea I would be riding to my group supervision with the information I had just gotten.
I had been actually excited to go to supervision, see the therapists who have watched me over this past year as I have grown comfortable with becoming a therapist and seeing clients there, and share with them the achievement of having graduated.
All that, however, was eclipsed by the bombshell my landlady dropped on me.
She told me she wanted me to move out.
That she had been planning on talking to me about it for a few weeks, but didn’t want to “spoil” my graduation weekend and stress me out.
Thanks.
You stressed me out anyway.
I find it really interesting that I had decided to pay my rent a week and a half early for next month too, I usually do pay early, by at least a few days, but something compelled me to do it earlier than usual and I believe I may have sensed something in the air.
A few weeks ago my landlady had the property inspected as she was planning on doing a re-financing of the house, “I’ll finally get that window in the studio,” is what I thought.
That, apparently was not what she thought.
Oh, there’s going to be a window, but it’s not for me.
She told me that she was originally going to give me thirty days, then I had paid rent for this upcoming month, like I said, I like to pay it in advance, and since it might take me a little while to find a place that she thought she’d give me 60, no, 90 days to move out.
That now that I was done with school, I got into a PhD program you rotten whore, oops, did I say that? She was happy to have “helped” support me through the Masters program by letting me live here.
Helped?
I have helped you lady pants, like, I pay the rent.
I pay utilities.
I am a model tenant.
I pay rent in advance.
I have ever since I moved in.
I take the trash out, I keep my studio clean, clean, clean.
I am sober, no partying down in my little den.
I don’t smoke.
I am a fucking full-time nanny who has a part-time internship and I, until recently, also attended grad school full time.
Meaning.
I’m not around all that fucking much.
Who could ask for a better fucking tenant?
Oh.
And I don’t have any pets and I don’t complain about the dog that you got a year ago that barks and whines and cries and then gets yelled at for barking and whining and crying.
I don’t know what is worse.
The barking or the yelling at the dog to stop barking.
Considering the year of great noise I should get a goddamn discount of the rent.
Ugh.
Anyway.
I took in what she was saying and let her do the talking, I was in shock and also trying really hard to smile and nod and not say anything to just listen, to absorb information.
I was also in my scooter jacket about to get on my scooter and go ride across town to my internship, I couldn’t process what was happening.
Which was probably a good thing, I didn’t get argumentative, I didn’t freak out on her.
I did find a silent, hot core of anger later, but more about that at another time.
She explained that she’d gotten her re-financement and was going to be doing a major remodel on her house, ripping out the kitchen and the bathroom in her unit, putting in a deck, building another in-law in the back yard, pulling out the kitchen in my unit and making it a one bedroom with a bath (and maybe a hot plate), and that she needed me to move out so that she could move into my unit while the remodel was being done on her unit.
I quietly congratulated her on the refinance and asked again about the move out date, September 1st, the 15th at the latest, she needed to know as soon as possible when I was going to move out so that she could get all of her contractors lined up and ready to go.
Oh.
Ok.
Glad to hear that you need me to hustle.
Good information.
I’m only deep diving into the most expensive city to live in for rentals in the United States with a dearth of options, where closets get rented as studios, and people curtain off living rooms for extra bedrooms, where adults live in dorms with shared bathrooms and communal spaces that are marketed towards tech kids in the FiDi and Mission districts.
Sure.
No problem.
Let me get right on that.
I decided to cry instead when I got to supervision.
Oh!
And hey, she also noted, you can pay your last months rent from your deposit if that helps you consolidate your cash to get into a new place.
Hmmm.
Thanks.
I think.
Don’t you owe me the deposit back with interest, isn’t that what you told me when I moved in, “I’ll be putting this in an account that will gather interest and I’ll give you the deposit plus the interest when you move out, just make sure you give me a 30 day notice.”
See.
This is where it gets tricky for me.
I never signed a lease.
I live in an illegal in-law unit.
It has a kitchen with a full size working gas range and a full size refrigerator, but no window and no ventilation.
I cook and open up the back door to ventilate.
I am also pretty damn certain that she didn’t pull permits to do the work on the in-law when it was remodeled, but I’m not 100% certain.
What I am certain of, however, is that in her nice, sweet, off-handed way she was manipulating me into thinking I was getting a deal and that she was being kind to me.
Oh, and you don’t have to pay for July’s rent either.
And while that’s a lovely offer, I think that you, madam, are not within your rights to push me out, at least not without a written notice, or some sort of compensation.
So.
I got myself onto the San Francisco Tenants Union webpage.
They have open drop in hours and I will be going to get myself some counseling to see what my rights are.
I may not have a signed contract, I may not have a lease, but I had a verbal agreement and over four and a half years of cashed checks with “June rent and utilities” written into the memo.
I have a paper trail.
And I know I have rights.
I just don’t know exactly what they are.
But I will.
And when I do.
Watch out.
I am mad and I am not going to be manipulated into rolling over.
I am going to move.
That is going to happen.
But I am going to do it in a way that advocates for my rights.
I am not going to get pushed out.
So.
Yeah.
If you hear of anything for rent in San Francisco.
Not Berkeley or Oakland or in the East Bay or over in Marin.
IN SAN FRANCISCO.
Do me a favor and let me know.
Thanks!
Auntiebubba 